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” Once you decide on what you really want, there are no more turning back. Everything after that is a quest. Whether or not you end up happy with your choice is not that important as long as you really know what you want in your life! After all, you know that you have the courage to stick on your choice rather than being push here and there without any clue on what you really want in life. “

#106 : Move On

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Why it is so hard to move on? Why the old one must always be the best one and no other?

You may think i am hypocrite by telling you this as i did faced the same problem before but hey, i’ve learnt a lot! Believe me, first thing you need to do to move on is to ACTUALLY MOVE ON. World will keep moving and time definitely are not waiting for you. There is no time for you to look back and keep waiting for the moment that already passed. Just let all the memories remain and enjoy creating a new one.

Its hard. Its not easy. OK, understand that. You think you had the best thing ever happen in your life before BUT, what made you think you will never have that kind of happiness anymore? In a different way, yes. Its not the same, yes. The situation may be different but still it can be another best thing happen or even better right? You are holding back your potential for a better life by keep seeking the almost impossible old awesome life.

Stop comparing what you have now and then. We definitely will not getting everything we wish for. Start accepting everything around you as it is. Appreciate all you have now in your life because you will know how precious all that when you lost them. God knows best what he think the best for you. Just keep a little faith and start believing that your best thing will happen to come again and again!

GOOD LUCK! 🙂

tentang takdir

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Senang mengakui takdir bila selari dengan kehendak atau persepsi sendiri tapi mengapa sukar menerima takdir bila keadaan berlaku seperti yang kita tidak mau?

Sedangkan baik buruk semua nya takdir dari Allah, yang terbaik untuk kita pada satu satu masa!

Hati2 bila mengeluh atau mengata tentang rezeki, ajal ataupun jodoh..

 

demang – takut jatuh syirik, tak masuk syurga nanti!

ikhlas dan kecewa

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kenapa kecewa bila Allah tak bagi?

kenapa kecewa bila tak dapat?

kenapa kecewa bila tak dibalas?

kenapa kecewa kalau IKHLAS?

 

ikhlas kah beribadah? ikhlas kah berbuat baik? ikhlas kah bila memberi?

betul ikhlas?

kalau ikhlas kenapa KECEWA?

 

demang – bila ikhlas takkan ada ruang untuk kecewa!